
Nate Notes
The new wisdom of breaking down walls challenges the conventional wisdom of "good fences make good neighbors." True wisdom lies in discerning which boundaries to respect and which boundaries to reach across to bridge a divide.

Nate Notes
The new wisdom of breaking down walls challenges the conventional wisdom of "good fences make good neighbors." True wisdom lies in discerning which boundaries to respect and which boundaries to reach across to bridge a divide.
Wow did I get a great response from my Alas! A question. . . post. I am thrilled at the dialogue and comments that were submitted. There was also a great variety of perspectives. So thank you to everyone who contributed!Some of the comments brought out questions or comments that I would like to respond to.
Ki said, "I would like to hear more about what the difference between consensual and abuse type are. Not many people understand that there is a non-abuse type polygamy."
There were some comments to the affect that citizens don't get to pick and choose which laws they follow, illegal is illegal, and how the "just law" argument can be used to pervert justice. I understand all these points and believe it or not, I agree with them. Rather than create a 10 page blog outlining the distinctions between my argument and the the points made, I would like to recommend a book: The Roots of American Order by Russell Kirk.
I wonder what these girls will think when Officer Friendly comes to school and passes out plastic badges and coloring books?
Is it lame to criticize the unjust exercise of power by those in authority?
As a hypothetical situation, how many would think I was having fun and being lame if I criticize officials who rolled into the Village in Manhattan with tanks, riot gear, and automatic weapons then placed under custody all the children of homosexuals and their biological parents, while arresting a few of the life partners? I wonder, would the same judge and executive officials do the same to a gay community-- because of a phone call?! Why should I refrain from branding as hypocrite a legislator to craft bills that specifically targeting the minority alternative lifestyle of polygamy but wouldn't dare do the same to other minority alternative lifestyles that are more generally accepted and empathized with by the public? Where are the task forces established by state attorney generals, governors, and funded by the state legislatures to stigmatize other entire minority groups and specifically target and prosecute them?
At no time did I imply that the entire nation was bigoted. I invite you to carefully read my post again. I did emphatically state it is bigotry to jail polygamists for bigamy.
To close on an up note, I am grateful for all the comments and viewpoints (even if they stir me up). It is good for me to find out what they are and learn from them. I hope some of my responses stir your feelings and cause you to think deeply about some fundamental (no pun intended) and complex issues. As good ol' Socrates put it, "The unexamined life is not worth living."
Thank you and keep the comments coming!
Traditional values and chivalry are strong among my readers. . . anonymous carried the sentiment of my commenteers with "It depends who asks who on the date. If it's the guy's idea he better own it."
Now I have always been willing to step up to my chivalrous duties, however my philosophy has been to never spend money on another man's wife. In other words, no expensive dates with the girl unless you plan on marrying her. What is more, I have found there is an inverse relationship between the amount of money spent on a date and the amount of fun on a date. The more I spent the less fun it tended to be, the less I spent the more fun I had. I have been on lots of dates, both before and after marriage. . .twice. Here are some of the economical dates I would recommend for the young suitor and broke as well as the old married and broke.
package of pasta (any kind) and all the girls bring a small jar of store bought spaghetti sauce. All the pasta goes in one giant pot and all the sauce in another giant pot. This gets cool if one Joe brought lasagna noodles, another macaroni, and the third angel hair. And who knows what the sauce will end up tasting like. If it is payday that week you can also have every one bring a favorite frozen juice for $2 (it has to be 100% fruit juice, no cocktails) and mix it together. As crazy as this sounds it always works out tasting good. Make sure have some games close by and you are set with food and fun.I have given you some of my favorites, what are some great cheap dates you have been on? Leave me your list in the comments!
Pookah after surgery
Pookah's first cast
Pookah on the move
Boo!
This will inject some variety and life back into my blog. So keep your fingers crossed for me and keep checking my blog.

Nate Notes
Franks Lloyd Wright said, "Give me the luxuries of life and I will willingly do without the necessities."
I am not encouraging fiscal recklessness. I am saying that a little luxury here and there can breathe some needed joy in life. A luxury doesn't always have to be expensive either, rather it should be well chosen.
Abundance to you and yours throughout your life. . .